As a momma to 4 little ones, I get that preparing for a family session can be a lot. Making sure everyone is dressed, fed, rested, and happy is not an easy task when it comes to the unpredictability of young children. The day of your session tensions can run high as you try to get everyone “picture perfect”.

It can be a bit of a mind game really, but I have some tricks that I want to share with you that will help you prepare for your family photography session.

 

Set the Tone!

Your little ones are like tiny mirrors, reflecting your energy. If you’re feeling stressed on the day of your session, chances are they’ll pick up on it too. Instead, lean into the excitement—talk about how much fun it’s going to be and how you can’t wait to create memories together. Your positive vibes will set the stage for a joyful session.

Little Incentives Go a Long Way

Let’s face it, a little encouragement can make a world of difference, and there’s zero judgment here! Depending on your child’s age and attention span, plan a special treat for after the session or bring along a small, non-messy snack like fruit snacks or smarties to keep their spirits up. Just steer clear of anything that might get messy, like chocolate or crumbly snacks.

Embrace a Little Mischief

Kids are naturally full of energy and can sometimes feel a bit overwhelmed during a family session. Letting them be a touch mischievous (within limits, of course) can help them feel relaxed and free. If you prepare for this mindset ahead of time, you’ll find it easier to keep a genuine smile on your face while they play. The real magic happens in those unfiltered, playful moments where their true personalities shine through.

Keep it Simple

While a little inspiration is great, I actually recommend not having a list of exact poses to replicate. It can make your images feel stiff or unnatural if you’re chasing a Pinterest-perfect shot. Instead, focus on connecting with your loved ones. Without rigid expectations, your photos will turn out beautifully, uniquely you.

Let the Moments Unfold

This might sound familiar, but it’s often easier said than done. When you book a photography session, your goal is to capture cherished memories, right? Kids are unpredictable, and as parents, it’s natural to want to control the situation. But during your session, let go of that urge and follow their lead a bit. The spontaneous moments are the ones you’ll treasure most.